A fun little Flip-o-Gram video on painting a quick little lotus last night. I love larger projects, but I’m constantly painting little fun (quick) projects as well. Many get tossed….you never see those!! Maybe some day, I’ll post a series of really bad paintings….lol!! But this little flower was fun to paint in between commissioned projects. More little clips like his to come. Hope you enjoy!! And…share this link, and tag me to be entered into a drawing to take place on 07/15/16 to win a limited-edition, signed 5×7″ print of this little dancer. As always, follow me on Instagram @lifeinwatercolorblog
By now, many of you have noticed that I paint a lot of pictures about mothers and children, primarily babies. I don’t think there is anything more beautiful, amazing, precious, delicious-smelling, soft, and snuggly than a little baby. I will expand that to say that I also love baby animals; kittens, puppies, ferrets, you name it, I love it, especially in baby-form. Baby toes are like little sausages…you just want to eat them up!!! Not literally of course, but seriously, I want to kiss those little precious nuglets of goodness. You can’t really do this once babies start crawling/walking, as then they no longer remain clean, and, well being a germaphobe, it just ain’t happening. For some reason, this brings me back to when my kids were very little, probably 4 & 5 years-old. It was Father’s Day and they had brought my husband and I breakfast in bed. It was simply a bowl of cereal for each of us (I love cereal…hello!!!…who doesn’t love a good bowl of Cap’n Crunch?!), they brought up two bowls of cereal and two spoons…it was a precious moment. The look on their precious, cherubic little faces was priceless. They were so proud that they had done this all on their own…yes they did. I’m not going to lie…being a germaphobe, I am always concerned about whether someone has washed their hands before handling something that I am eating, or after shaking hands, etc. I wanted to enjoy my bowl of cereal that my precious littles had prepared for us…but I let my husband take the first bite, since it was Father’s Day. He did so, and of course, raved about how delicious it was, and how he especially loved it because it came from them. I went to take my first bite, when I saw that my husband had a puzzled look on his face and hear him utter, “where did you get these bowls?”….I slowly put my spoon back in the bowl, as they answered “the dishwasher”…which, of course we were both realizing contained dirty dishes, hence the film of grit that he had scraped upon while gathering a spoonful of cereal. There was also remnants of something on the spoons, the likes of which, I didn’t want to even guess what it could be. We laughed and “ate” our cereal (and when I say “ate our cereal”, I mean, we pretended to eat our cereal and then dumped it out when the kids weren’t looking). It is one of those funny moments that you laugh about with your kids when they are older and can find the humor in it all. It was such a precious moment. It wasn’t about the cereal, or dirty bowls & spoons…it was about the love that was demonstrated when our precious babies thought about us on that special day. There are many other precious days like this, but this is one is one of my favorites, as it was when we were still a strong family unit. There is nothing more precious than that. While my husband and I divorced, we each still experienced many other loving moments with our kids. I watch my son with his kids and see the love that he has for them. I know he will have many memories of dirty cereal bowls filled with love, and that makes my heart full and realize the many blessings I have in my life.
Any mother will recognize this stance. It seems to be the primary stance from the time your children are old enough to hold up their head, to the time they are too heavy to hold (for any length of time, anyways). It’s almost a global symbolism for motherhood, as it is a stance used in most, if not all cultures. Many carry their child this way while they are doing daily chores, shopping, or just snuggling with their child. It feels to be a method to keep your child close, allowing them to feel safe, and comfortable next to mum; they can see the world around them, but within the safe confines of mother’s arms. And as the hip pain sets in (due to poor posture and weight distribution), we switch our children to the other side. For me, since I am right-handed, this often meant struggling to do daily activities with my left hand, not an easy feat for someone that is definitely dominantly right-pawed.
When my children were little, I had a difficult time “letting go”. It was hard for me to allow them to be independent. I was afraid of them getting hurt. I even fretted about them getting dirty, which was ridiculous, because a.) they were children and b.) we lived in the country, where it is simply impossible NOT to get dirty. My children loved to wander, explore, and yes, get dirty…really dirty. A few unforgettable moments were when we found our children playing in the cow’s watering trough, sitting in it like a Jacuzzi tub. As you can imagine, these tubs were not pristine, so I was a little freaked out. Another time, my children decided to see what the cows’ salt lick tasted like. As a germaphobic mother, this caused me a lot of anxiety. Of course, I laugh about it now…as do my adult children. I did ease-up over time, allowing my children to get filthy (oh so filthy), as they did take nightly baths, so my anxiety-riddled self would feel better knowing they were going to bed clean, free of the day’s filth, well, most of it anyhow.
I believe that part of the reason it was difficult for me to allow them independence early-on, was that it was simply hard for me to let go of them as children; as it meant they were growing up. I wanted to preserve those sweet babies as they were so precious. What I learned is that each stage of childhood was a treasure. It was sad to see them transition from the “Littles” stage, but I also enjoyed watching them grow up into amazing, beautiful, thoughtful, loving adults. As they grew, I grew as well. I tried to be a better mom each day. I wasn’t perfect (I’m sure my children will quickly attest to this), but I have always loved them with all my heart and I have always tried to be the best mama I could be. I believe my children know and understand this as well. And while I’m no long able to hold my children on my hip, I will always hold them in a special place in my heart.